In this article
- The sequence
- Stage one: the day after it is due
- Stage two: about a week later
- Stage three: pick up the phone
- Stage four: the formal reminder
- Stage five: the final notice
- The commercial variant
- When they ask to pay in instalments
- The message you send to nobody
- Make paying easier at every stage
- Chasing the person who is not the payer
- Prevent the next one
- Frequently asked questions
Most unpaid painting invoices are not refusals. They are invoices that were forgotten, mislaid, or waiting on somebody who is not the person you dealt with. Which means the tone of your first reminder matters enormously, because treating an oversight like a default damages a relationship you were about to be paid by anyway.
The systems that stop this happening are in how to get paid faster on painting jobs, and the escalation path once it is genuinely stuck is in what to do when a customer will not pay. This is the wording for each stage. This is general information and not legal advice, and anything approaching formal recovery is worth putting to your own adviser first.
The sequence

Five contacts, escalating slowly, each one firmer than the last but none of them angry. The escalation is in the content, not the temperature, and a reminder that gets cross is a reminder that gets ignored on principle.
Two rules underneath all of them. Never skip a stage, because arriving at a final notice with no history looks disproportionate. And never send one late, because a reminder that arrives a fortnight after the due date teaches the customer that your terms are decorative.
Stage one: the day after it is due
Hi Sarah, quick one. The invoice for the hallway job was due yesterday and I have not seen it come through. It is almost certainly sitting in an inbox somewhere, so no concern at all, but I wanted to flag it in case it went astray.
Copy attached. Bank details are on it, or I can send a card link if that is easier.
Thanks again for the job, and hope the stairs are holding up.
Warm, short, and it assumes the best. It also does the two things that actually get invoices paid: it attaches the invoice again so nobody has to go looking, and it offers a second way to pay.
Send this the day after, not the week after. Prompt reminders are read as organised rather than as pushy, and delaying it makes the second one much harder to write.
Stage two: about a week later
Hi Sarah, following up on the invoice from the hallway job, which is now a week past due. Copy attached again.
If there is a problem with the work or with the invoice itself, tell me and I will deal with it, because I would rather know than keep sending reminders into a gap. If it is simply a matter of getting round to it, no problem, but could you let me know roughly when I should expect it?
Thanks.
The middle paragraph is the important one. It gives the customer a way to raise a problem without confrontation, and a surprising number of stalled invoices turn out to be an unspoken complaint. If that is what comes back, you are into different territory, covered in how to handle painting customer complaints.
Asking when rather than whether is deliberate. It requests a specific commitment instead of an acknowledgement.
Stage three: pick up the phone
Two written reminders with no reply means writing is not working. Call, and if you get through, follow it with a message the same day so there is a record.
Hi Sarah, thanks for the chat. Just confirming what we agreed: you will settle the invoice by Friday the twenty first. Copy attached again for convenience.
If anything changes before then, let me know rather than letting the date pass.
Confirming a verbal promise in writing, without making a point of it, is what converts a conversation into something you can refer back to. Do it every time, even when you are confident.
Stage four: the formal reminder
The tone changes here. Still not angry, but no longer casual, and it starts to reference the agreement rather than the relationship.
Sarah, the invoice for the hallway, stairs and landing remains unpaid and is now three weeks past the due date. I have written twice and we spoke on the fourteenth, when payment by the twenty first was agreed. That date has passed.
The payment terms were set out in the quote you accepted on the second and on the invoice itself. The work was completed on the eleventh and signed off by you at the final walkthrough on the same day.
Please settle the outstanding balance within seven days. If there is a reason you have not paid that I am unaware of, this is the moment to tell me, and I will genuinely try to resolve it.
If I have not heard from you by the end of that period, I will have to pass this on for recovery, which I would rather not do.
What makes this letter work is dates. Every claim is anchored to a specific day, which turns it from a complaint into a record. It also restates that the work was accepted, which closes off the most common late objection.
Only threaten what you will actually do. A recovery threat you do not follow through on converts every future reminder into noise.
Stage five: the final notice
Sarah, this is a final notice regarding the unpaid balance for the work completed on the eleventh.
The invoice is now five weeks overdue. Reminders were sent on the twelfth, the nineteenth and the twenty eighth, and payment by the twenty first was agreed by telephone on the fourteenth and not made.
Unless the balance is paid in full within seven days of this letter, I will begin formal recovery of the debt and will pursue any additional costs and interest that are recoverable.
I would still much rather settle this directly. If you contact me within that period I will work with you on a payment arrangement.
Notice it still leaves a door open in the last line. Very few painters want to go to recovery, and the aim of a final notice is to be the last letter you have to send rather than the first step in a legal process.
Be careful about asserting a specific entitlement to interest or charges. What is recoverable varies by where you are and by what your contract says, so keep it general in the letter and check the specifics before you actually claim anything. Where your rights sit as a contractor is worth understanding in advance, and painting contractor lien rights covers one part of that picture.
The commercial variant
Chasing a business is a different exercise. There is rarely any reluctance, only a process, and the reason for non payment is usually that something is missing from your paperwork rather than anything about the money.
Hi Tom, following up on our application for the second floor works, submitted on the third and due for payment on the thirtieth.
Could you confirm it has been certified and let me know the payment run date? If anything further is needed from us to release it, tell me what and I will get it over today.
For reference, the retention on this one is due for release in the new year and I have that diarised.
Asking what is missing is far more productive than asking for the money, because on commercial work it usually is something missing. The documentation requirements are covered in the commercial painting checklist, and the structures themselves in painting payment terms.
When they ask to pay in instalments
A customer who proposes a payment plan is a customer who intends to pay, which puts them in a completely different category from one who has gone silent. Say yes, and write it down.
Hi Sarah, thanks for being straight with me about it, that helps.
Three payments is fine. Let us say a third on the twentieth of each month starting this month, which clears it by the end of March. I will send a reminder a couple of days before each one so it is easy to keep track.
Confirming that in writing so we both have the same dates. If one of them is going to be a problem, tell me beforehand and we will move it rather than it just passing.
Setting the dates rather than leaving it vague is what makes an arrangement hold. So is agreeing in advance what happens if one is missed, because it makes the next conversation a reminder of something agreed rather than a fresh negotiation.
The message you send to nobody
Write the angry one if it helps, and then delete it. A reminder that expresses how you feel about being unpaid is satisfying for about a minute and it costs you the higher ground permanently, especially if the exchange is ever read by a third party.
The letters above work precisely because they stay level while getting steadily firmer. Firmness comes from dates, facts and consequences, not from tone, and a customer who is embarrassed about not paying will pay a calm creditor far sooner than an angry one.
Make paying easier at every stage
Attach the invoice to every single reminder. Never make a customer search their own inbox, because that is a task they will defer.
Offer more than one payment method, and put the details in the message itself rather than only on the attachment. A card link that works from a phone converts reminders into payments at a rate that makes the transaction fee irrelevant, which is the argument in how to take payment on a painting job.
Chasing the person who is not the payer
On domestic work you often deal with one person and get paid by another, and on rentals the person who let you in may not be the person with the invoice. Reminders sent to the wrong person go nowhere and feel to you like being ignored.
Hi Sarah, checking I am chasing the right person on this one. Do you handle the invoice yourself, or should I be sending it to Tom or to the agent?
Happy to send it wherever is easiest, I just want to make sure it is not sitting with someone who is not expecting it.
Ask this at the second reminder rather than the fourth. Establishing who pays at the point of booking is better still, and it belongs on the intake record rather than being discovered a month after completion, which is one reason the customer intake form asks who owns the property.
Prevent the next one
Every letter above is a symptom. The cure is upstream: a deposit, progress payments on anything long, an invoice issued the same day as completion, and terms that were agreed in the quote rather than announced on the invoice.
The single biggest lever is invoicing immediately. An invoice that arrives a week after the job is finished has already lost the customer sense of urgency, and it quietly signals that the money is not pressing. That is why it sits on the painting job closeout checklist as a same day item rather than a same week one.
Frequently asked questions
How soon should the first reminder go out?
The day after the due date. Waiting a week to avoid seeming pushy makes the second reminder harder and tells the customer your terms are approximate.
Should I charge late payment interest?
Only if it was in the terms the customer accepted, and check what is actually enforceable where you operate before relying on it. Many painters state it and never apply it, which is a reasonable position provided the letter does not overclaim.
What if they dispute the work only after I chase?
Treat it as a genuine complaint even if the timing is suspicious, and deal with the work and the money as separate conversations. Refusing to engage hands them the argument.
Is it worth using a debt collection service?
For larger balances it can be, and the credible mention of it in a final notice frequently produces payment on its own. Weigh the cost and the relationship against the sum involved.
How many reminders before I escalate?
Four contacts across roughly a month, then the final notice. Fewer looks abrupt and more teaches the customer that nothing follows a reminder.
Should I stop work on other jobs for the same customer?
Yes, and say so plainly rather than quietly. Continuing to work for someone who has not paid for the last job is how a small unpaid balance becomes a large one.
