In this article
- The principle behind every message below
- Follow up one: two or three days after sending
- Follow up two: about a week later
- Follow up three: the value message
- The close out email
- The follow up that happens before you send anything
- A worked sequence on one job
- Texts, not just emails
- What to do when they reply but do not decide
- When to stop
- Two follow ups that are not chasing at all
- Track the outcome of every one
- Frequently asked questions
Following up is the cheapest work in a painting business. The lead is already paid for, the site visit is already done, the quote already exists, and the only thing standing between you and the job is a message most painters never send because they do not want to be a nuisance.
The cadence, the psychology and the reasons painters avoid it are covered in how to follow up on a painting estimate and how to close painting sales. This is what to actually write.
The principle behind every message below

Each follow up has to carry something. A message that only says have you had a chance to think about it puts the work back on the customer and gives them nothing to react to, which is why it so often gets no reply and why sending it three times feels like pestering.
Carrying something can be small. A photo of a similar job. A note about availability. An answer to a question they did not ask but probably have. The bar is that the message would be worth sending even if it did not ask for anything.
Follow up one: two or three days after sending
Hi Sarah, just checking the quote arrived and opened properly, since attachments occasionally do not.
One thing I should have said in the original message: if the spindles are the part you are unsure about, we can do the walls and ceiling now and come back to them, and it will not cost more to split it that way. Plenty of people do.
No rush on deciding. If you have questions, easiest is to call me.
The delivery check is a genuine reason to make contact and it is not a pretext, because attachments do fail. The second paragraph is the part doing real work: it removes an obstacle before the customer has to admit to having one.
Follow up two: about a week later
This one carries evidence rather than a concession.
Hi Sarah, we finished a stairwell on Beech Road this week that had the same problem as yours with the wall above the return, where the old filler had cracked along the joint. Photos attached in case they are useful, since it is hard to picture how it comes out until you see one.
The quote I sent is still good. Availability wise I am into the middle of next month now, so if you were thinking of getting it done before Christmas it is worth telling me sooner rather than later.
Availability is honest information rather than pressure, provided it is true. Saying it when it is not is the fastest way to lose the trust the rest of the message is building.
Follow up three: the value message
By now the silence probably means price, and the useful move is not to drop yours. It is to make clear what the number covers, because customers comparing quotes frequently do not know what the difference is made of.
Hi Sarah, no pressure at all on this, but it is worth me saying what is inside the price in case you are weighing it against another quote.
The filling and sanding is priced as its own stage rather than absorbed, because on your stairwell it is most of the work, and it is the part that decides whether the finish still looks right in three years. The primer over the water mark is a stain blocking one rather than a general primer, because a general one will let it through. And the quote covers two full coats, not one coat and a touch up.
If another quote is lower, it is worth asking those three things specifically. They are where the difference usually is, and it is not always obvious from the paperwork.
That message wins jobs against cheaper quotes without ever criticising the other painter, which is the tone to aim for. The argument behind it is set out in how to compete with lowball painting bids and should you discount painting jobs.
The close out email
This is the one almost nobody sends and it is the most useful of the lot. It ends the thread cleanly, it frees you from wondering, and it produces replies at a rate that surprises people the first time they try it.
Hi Sarah, I am going to assume the stairwell is on hold or has gone to someone else, so I will stop chasing you, which I imagine is a relief.
If it is still live at any point, the quote stands and you know where I am. And if you did go elsewhere, I would genuinely find it useful to know whether it came down to price, timing or something about how I handled it. No awkwardness either way, it just helps me get better at this.
Two things happen. A meaningful share of these get a reply saying the job is still on and they simply had not got round to it. And the ones that went elsewhere frequently tell you why, which is pricing information you cannot get any other way. That feedback loop is exactly what the follow up guidance means by treating losses as data.
The follow up that happens before you send anything
The easiest follow up to write is the one you set up at the site visit, because you agreed it out loud and it is expected rather than intrusive.
I will have this over to you by Thursday. If you have not decided by the middle of next week I will drop you a line, purely so it does not sit forgotten in an inbox. Tell me now if you would rather I did not and I will leave it entirely with you.
Almost nobody says do not contact me. What they do is stop treating the follow up as a sales call, because you told them it was coming and framed it as admin. That single sentence at the end of a visit is worth more than any wording you can put in the message itself, and it is the practical version of the point in how to send a painting quote about setting the next step before you hit send.
A worked sequence on one job
Put together, a quiet quote runs like this. Thursday, quote sent. Monday, the delivery check with the split option. Following Tuesday, the photos from the similar job plus honest availability. The Tuesday after that, the value message explaining what is inside the price. A week later, the close out.
Five contacts across roughly three weeks, each carrying something, ending cleanly. That is the whole system, and the reason it works is not persistence. It is that each message gives the customer a reason to reply that is not simply reporting on their own indecision.
Write all five when you send the quote, while the visit is fresh. Trying to compose the value message a fortnight later, when you can no longer picture the stairwell, is why the third follow up so often ends up as a bare nudge.
Texts, not just emails
Some customers never open email. A text follow up should be shorter and should not try to do the work of the email version.
Hi Sarah, Dave here about the stairwell quote. No rush, just checking it reached you. Happy to answer anything by phone if easier.
Sign with your name and the job every time, because your number is not saved in their phone and an unsigned text from an unknown number reads as spam.
What to do when they reply but do not decide
A reply that says we are still thinking about it is better than silence and worse than a decision, and the wrong response is to say no problem and wait, because that puts the job back into the same limbo it just came out of.
No problem at all. Can I ask what you are weighing up? If it is the price I would rather know, and if it is the timing that is easy to work around. Either way it saves you having to think about it again.
If it helps, I could pencil you in for the week of the ninth without any commitment. It just holds the slot while you decide, and I will let you know if someone else asks for it.
Asking what specifically converts a vague delay into a named obstacle you can answer. The soft hold does the same job from the other direction: it introduces a real reason to decide without inventing a deadline, which customers see through instantly.
If they name timing, book it. If they name price, you are back on the ground covered in how to handle painting price objections. If they will not name anything, that is usually a no, and the close out message is the kind thing to send next.
When to stop
Three or four contacts spread over two or three weeks, then the close out email, then leave it. Beyond that you are not being persistent, you are being remembered for the wrong reason, and painters have a way of running into the same people again.
Put the ones that went quiet into a list and revisit them at a sensible interval rather than never. A quote that was too expensive in autumn is frequently affordable in spring, and reappearing once, months later, with something genuinely useful is a different act from chasing. That longer game is the subject of how to get repeat painting customers.
Two follow ups that are not chasing at all
Not every contact after a quote has to be about the quote, and the two below get replies precisely because they do not ask for anything.
Hi Sarah, meant to say when I was there: the extractor in the bathroom is venting into the loft rather than outside, which is almost certainly where the damp on the landing ceiling is coming from. Nothing to do with the painting, and not something I do, but worth a plumber looking before anyone paints over it.
That message costs you a possible job and buys something considerably more valuable, because a painter who tells you not to paint yet is a painter who gets believed about everything else.
Hi Sarah, we had a cancellation for the week of the sixth. Not chasing, and the quote stands either way, but if the timing happens to suit you it is there.
Real availability is a legitimate reason to make contact. Inventing it is not, and customers who later see your diary is empty will remember.
Track the outcome of every one
Record what happened to each quote and why. Won, lost on price, lost on timing, went quiet, still open. It takes seconds per job and it is the only way to find out whether your problem is your pricing, your speed or your follow up, which are three completely different problems with three completely different fixes.
Without it, a painter losing jobs will usually conclude they are too expensive, because that is the easiest explanation to reach for. The numbers frequently say otherwise. Which measures are worth keeping is covered in painting business KPIs, and the pricing side in how to avoid underbidding a painting job.
Frequently asked questions
How many times should I follow up?
Three or four contacts over two to three weeks, ending with the close out message. More than that changes how you are remembered without improving your odds.
Does following up make me look desperate?
Not if each message carries something. What reads as desperate is repetition with no new information, which is precisely what a bare have you decided message is.
Should I offer a discount in the follow up?
No. Discounting unprompted teaches the customer the first number was padded, and it invites a negotiation you were not in. Change the scope instead if you need to move.
Is it worth asking why I lost?
Yes, and the close out email is the natural place. People answer it more often than you expect, and the reason is regularly something you can fix that has nothing to do with price.
Email or text for follow up?
Match whatever they used to contact you first. If they never respond to either, one phone call at a sensible hour is reasonable before you close the loop.
What if they say they are still deciding?
Ask what they are weighing up, then answer that specifically and agree a date to speak again. Still deciding is usually a question they have not asked rather than a genuine deadlock.
